Just a little note to hold your tongue sometimes..... we just got done buying cleats for the boys and Ry was holding the boxes in the car on her lap. She had a pencil and started writing on the box and I thought to myself, "What is she DOING? The boys are going to be so mad when they see scribbles on the box" and I was trying to think about how I would handle the situation that I perceived happening when we got home.
what happened instead caused me to take a deep breath and take in the
She hadn't scribbled on the boxes. She had written each of them a
note for their first day of flag football tomorrow. For Cruz, "Good
Luck!" and for Kai, "Be A Team Player!" .... so I guess that was a
little lesson for me not to always assume that they'll fight and to slow
down and hold my tongue sometimes. I'm glad I did in this instance!